Category Archives: Sexuality

Intensity Vibrator Review

Posted on January 28, 2012 by Boss Fader

I contacted a few of my fellow sex toy professionals and enthusiasts to see what they thought of the new Jopen Intensity vibrator. Below is an especially great review that came via email from a friend who wishes to remain … Continue reading →

Posted in Sex Toy Reviews, Sexuality | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Porn is the Best Sex Education We’ve Got

Posted on November 25, 2011 by Boss Fader

Pornography is the only demonstration of sex we ever get. It is the hard, visual confirmation of the soft, often implicated words and diagrams through which we formally learn about sex. Continue reading →

Posted in Porn, Sexuality | Tagged , , , , | Leave a comment

New Focus: Orgasm Tips

Posted on August 15, 2011 by Boss Fader

I was 20 years old when I realized that I had never had an orgasm. …or rather, I was 20 years old when I first suspected that I had never had an orgasm. I was having sex, and had been … Continue reading →

Posted in Sexuality | Tagged , , , , , , | Leave a comment

The Dirty Show Interview: Prodding Jerry Vile

Posted on February 21, 2011 by Boss Fader

I did an interview with Jerry Vile, the dude that runs The Dirty Show®. He’s a loveable asshole type. Continue reading →

Posted in Art, Detroit, Interviews, Porn, Sexuality | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , | 11 Comments

Gushing: Metro Times Interview with Jane Fader

Posted on February 14, 2011 by Boss Fader

“Grushing”: Travis Wright interviews Jane Fader, featured in the Metro Times “Lust Issue” (February 2011). What do you think you know about sex? Better question: What do you think you don’t know about sex? With all that’s out there, facets … Continue reading →

Posted in Art, Detroit, Interviews, Sexuality | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Q: How do Detroit girls fuck?

Posted on December 7, 2010 by Boss Fader

Detroit girls are backseat girls. Continue reading →

Posted in Detroit, Sexuality | Tagged , , | 3 Comments

Improving Intimacy with Leslie Blackburn

Posted on November 29, 2010 by Boss Fader

I have been raving about Leslie Blackburn’s work as a sexual healer and transformational guide ever since last spring when I had my mind blown at her “Sacred Sexuality and Female Ejaculation” workshop. Continue reading →

Posted in Detroit, Interviews, Sexuality | Tagged , , , , , , , , | 5 Comments

Lelo SIRI vs. Lelo Gigi: Phallic vs. Non-Phallic Vibrators

Posted on September 21, 2010 by Boss Fader

The Lelo SIRI vibrator stands out from other Lelo “pleasure objects”and indeed many other sex toys because of its non-phallic shape. By “non-phallic,” I mean that the design of the SIRI does not resemble a penis. This can be contrasted … Continue reading →

Posted in Sex Toy Reviews, Sexuality | Tagged , , , , , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Cineffable Q & A

Posted on August 9, 2010 by Boss Fader

This is a transcript of a Q & A session I participated in after giving a talk on my documentary, Female Ejaculation: Perceptions, at the 2009 Paris International Lesbian and Feminist Film Festival (also known as Cineffable). Continue reading →

Posted in Sexuality | Tagged , , , , , , | Leave a comment

Cineffable Talk

Posted on August 9, 2010 by Boss Fader

This is a transcript of the talk I gave following a screening of my documentary, Female Ejaculation: Perceptions, at the 2009 Paris International Lesbian and Feminist Film Festival (also known as Cineffable). I have an mp3 of the talk, but because I don’t speak French and most of the Parisian lesbians and feminists didn’t speak much English, there are too many translations, silences and oh-do-you-mean’s to make a proper podcast out of it. Continue reading →

Posted in Sexuality | Tagged , , , , , , , , , | Leave a comment