Orgasm by Electricity: Is the New Intensity Vibrator Safe?

jopen intensity next generation kegel stimulator 300x238 Orgasm by Electricity: Is the New Intensity Vibrator Safe?The new Intensity vibrator by Jopen uses electric shock to automatically exercise your vaginal muscles while at the same time stimulating your clitoris, rabbit-style. And did I mention it has an inflatable shaft?

Quite honestly the Intensity raises some questions that have rekindled my interest in the old buzz bizz. How do we know that internal electro-stimulation is safe, or that applying any kind of direct stimulation to the clitoris or sex organs doesn’t have adverse, long-term effects on sensory and reproductive ability?

The adult novelty industry, which is estimated to have an annual domestic revenue of $1 billion, doesn’t have an established standard for product safety and quality, nor is there an outside regulatory body to determine what those standards might be. Additionally, adult novelties are not subject to any form of government standards or regulations besides age restriction. While sex toy and vibrator manufacturers often go out of their way to “talk the talk” of sex toy health and safety, every sex toy package is marked with warning labels stating that the product is “sold as a novelty only” and “for external use only.” If manufacturers are making sure to relieve themselves of legal responsibility for their “novelty” product, it seems unlikely that there has been enough (or perhaps even any) research demonstrating that sex toys are indeed safe to use.

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Intensity by Jopen: For external use only?

Before I subject my vagina to a series of electric shocks, I think I’ll do a little more research on Jopen’s new Intensity vibrator and the effects of vibrator use in general. What do you think?

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Conspiracy of Silence – Banned Discovery Channel Documentary

Last week I came upon Conspiracy of Silence, a very disturbing documentary about high-level American politicians’ involvement of child sex slavery in the 1980s (watch the full-length version below).

The Conspiracy of Silence story emerged when two British documentarians were sent to investigate the closing of the Franklin Community Federal Credit Union in Omaha, Nebraska, from which Lawrence E. (Larry) King, a celebrated black republican political leader, was charged with embezzling almost $40 million. Conspiracy of Silence was produced by Yorkshire Television (UK) and was scheduled to air on the Discovery channel (US) on May 3, 1994. At the last minute, the documentary was pulled and was never broadcast in either Great Britain or the United States.

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Lawrence E. “Larry” King

My research into this story has revealed consistency of information, but very little credibility or reliability in the sources. There is no Wikipedia entry on the documentary, and only a “stub” on the child sex slavery allegations. I have found a few booksacademic explorationswebsitesinterviews, and articles, but they leave me unsatisfied, even accumulatively.

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Conspiracy of Silence – No Entry

Were you aware of this “scandal” in 1994? Do you remember anything about Conspiracy of Silence being pulled from the Discovery channel, or of the related sex crime allegations? Do you think that a lack of publicity and information would have existed if the Larry King “scandal” was exposed in 2008, rather than 1988?

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Sex Toy Art

I was inspired by my recent handlings with sex toys for men and decided to get creative. Here are some things I’ve been messing around with. What say you?

Ass

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Ass

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Sex Toys for Men

This post is an introduction to sex toys for men. Men’s sex toys can be organized into four categories: masturbators, cock rings, sex dolls, and anal toys. Here I provide a general description of each type of men’s sex toy and explain its intended use. Be sure to subscribe to janefader.com to receive free reviews and videos about sex toys for men.

1. Masturbators

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Sex Toys for Men: Xtreme Head Exciter

Male masturbators are hand-held sex toys for men that come in the form of a hard plastic tube. There is a small opening at one end of the tube that is usually shaped like labia, lips, or an anus. For all intents and purposes, this hole is meant to be fucked. The inside of the masturbator is filled with silicone material that fits tightly and provides resistance to the penis. The inside of a masturbator is often textured with ridges to simulate the inside of a real vagina, mouth or ass. The most popular masturbator (and arguably the most popular men’s sex toy over all) is the Fleshlight. The Fleshlight is a non-vibrating masturbator. An example of a automated masturbator is the Xtreme Head Exciter, which features a hand strap and a textured interior (pictured above).

 2. Cock Rings

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Sex Toys for Men: The Screaming O

A second type of men’s sex toy is the cock ring. Cock rings are circular bands made of silicone, metal, hard plastic, or leather. Cock rings are worn one of two ways: around the base of the penis in front of the balls, or around both the balls and penis. Traditionally, cock rings are worn around both the balls and penis to maintain an erection and delay ejaculation. Cock rings are also worn in this way to create the illusion of a “bigger buldge” while being fully clothed. More recently, a new feature has been added to the cock ring: vibration. Vibrating cock rings such as The Screaming O (pictured above) are worn around the base of the penis in front of the balls and although they are primarily marketed as a a sex toy for men, vibrating cock rings are designed to provide clitoral stimulation to a female partner and thus actually function as a women’s or couple’s sex toy.

3. Sex Dolls

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Sex Toys for Men: Brianna Banks' Pussy & Ass

The third category of sex toys for men is the sex doll. Sex dolls are similar to masturbators in that they are meant to be fucked. But unlike the tube-shaped masturbators, sex dolls are carefully crafted into life-size replicas of actual human bodies and body parts. The RealDoll is a popular example of a sex doll. Brianna Banks’ Pussy & Ass (pictured above) will do the trick for someone who prefers a more minimal set up. Ass, pussy, tits, mouths, feet, hands, hands holding pussies open, ass/pussy combos, tits/cock/face combos, torsos, legs with feet and ass, feet and ass, double-ended pussies, are all available with and without vibrating capabilities.

4. Anal Toys

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Sex Toys for Men: Aneros Prostate Stimulator

The fourth category of men’s sex toy is the anal toy. As we all know, both men and women have an anus and a prostate. Standard vibrators and dildos can be used anally on both men and women. However, there are some anal toys made specifically for the male body. The Aneros Prostate Stimulator (pictured above) is made of hard, non-porous plastic designed ergonomically for ease of insertion and shaped to give a gentle prostate massage with little effort on the part of the user.

Check back soon for video demonstrations and reviews of sex toys for men!

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Lady Gaga-Inspired Vibrator: APPROVED!

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Masturbate in Style with the Evolved Waterproof Princess Vibrator

lady gaga bedazzled vibrator Lady Gaga Inspired Vibrator: APPROVED!The Evolved Waterproof Princess vibrator is very Lady Gaga. It’s sleek, simple, compact, and most importantly, it’s BEDAZZLED. I had to switch batteries half way through but they weren’t my batteries and they weren’t brand name, so I can’t blame it on the vibrator. Plus, I still had an orgasm in the end. Check out my video review:

Lady Gaga image remixed by 6foot4.

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Learning From Porn

I learned a new move from a porn video.

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In my last blog I wrote about pornography as sex education. Specifically, I argued that pornography is the most effective sex education out there due to the shortcomings of conventional sex ed, as well as to the close proximity that the pornographic image has to reality.

Last night I came across a porn clip that fired up a comparable amount of intrigue. The video itself was nothing special–a heterosexual pro-am teaser directing viewers to a pay site. However, the content included a method of clitoral stimulation that I had never considered before:

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This screenshot shows a man rubbing a woman’s clit with both thumbs at once. Like a little clitoral massage! Like a rabbit vibrator only (I’m assuming) not so tickley!

Before seeing this clip on XVideos.com, this stimulation method had never occurred to me as a possibility. But now not only am I aware of it, I was given a demonstration of how it’s done. Skill-based learning from porn. I’ll be passing the lesson on to my future lovers, for sure!

What “moves” have you learned from porn?

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Ghostbusters Vibrator Video Review

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This guy needs some Jackie Wilson.

I wanted to use the Evolved Croupier so bad that I bought it with my own money. This is no joke, as it cost about $70. Two things attracted me to this vibrator:

  1. It’s uncanny resemblance to the slime in Ghostbusters II.
  2. The Evolved “Roulette” wheel, which controls the Croupier’s power and intensity.

Although I love the simplicity of the control wheel, the Evolved Croupier just didn’t do it for me. In the end I had to resort back to my trusted Lelo Siri. Watch my vibrator video review to see why:

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Janosz Poha in the Good Slime

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Porn is the Best Sex Education We’ve Got

Pornography is the most effective method of sex education.

As we grow up and learn about sex, we do so without any real point of reference. We enter our first sexual encounter uncertain of how we should conduct ourselves. Rather, we jump into the backseat with the faith that we have listened to the right people and the right words, hoping that our biological impulses are strong enough to make up for the difference.

Unless, of course, we watch porn.

Pornography is the only demonstration of sex we ever get. It is the hard, visual confirmation of the soft, often implicated words and diagrams through which we formally learn about sex. It is the visual evidence that substantiates rumor and experience. Porn is our only model for comparison. It is our standard of truth.

Further, because any visual representation of sex is by definition pornographic, porn monopolizes our knowledge of sex.

In the way that all students speak the words of their teachers, we are all disciples of pornography. Our sexuality is pornographic because there is nothing else for it to be. In order to make sense of contemporary sexuality, we have to study pornography and its conventions. One such convention is a sex position called the reverse cowgirl (pictured below).

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Reverse Cowgirl (as drawn by my roomie)

For the reverse cowgirl, the man and woman both face the same direction. woman sits on the man’s lap while he sits down. Both face forward in the same direction. The woman’s legs and pussy are spread wide and her torso and breasts are fully exposed. The man’s balls are visible and his penis alternates between hiding and visibility as it penetrates. Every body part of pornographic value is condensed on the screen (this position can also be used for hetero anal sex or with two male partners).

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Reverse Cowgirl (as drawn by me)

Although the reverse cowgirl succeeds in maximum visibility, assuming this position is not necessarily beneficial to those who are performing and aiming to feel sexual pleasure. The penis isn’t aligned with any especially erogenous zones (such as the g-spot). The partners can’t see each other’s bodies. It’s not comfortable to be in. It’s not easy to get in to.

How does this analysis of the reverse cowgirl can forward our understanding of the relationship between pornography and sexuality? Do you think that the reverse cowgirl is a result of our pornographic epistemology? In this world in which truth is equated with seeing, is there another way for us to learn about sex besides pornography?

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Beverly Fre$h Interview: Art, Rap & Pu$$y


 Beverly Fre$h Interview: Art, Rap & Pu$$y

Beverly Fre$h in BED

I’ve been waiting my whole life for Beverly Fre$h. He’s an artist with papers, a rapper with tear sheets. He brags about having a big heart. He’s got his own dance, the “how-ya-do.” He performs a capella on international landmarks. His full resume includes solo art exhibitions, published design work, a lifetime of experience in the Midwest underground hip hop scene, and about a hundred other points of interest that are just as cool. Beverly Fre$h also has a record release party for his new album BED this Saturday 11/19 at the Magic Stick in Detroit. Enter to win free passes to the show and a limited edition red translucent 12″ vinyl of BED on MOTORCITYBLOG.

Last summer I interviewed Fre$h while he was shooting the video for his first single from BED, “Dead Millionaire.” I arrived on location at the rapper’s childhood home in St. Claire and was welcomed by Fre$h–a swarthy, soft-spoken man who stood at the foot of a cellar staircase and waved me down. The basement walls were covered in rope link sausage and synthetic wigs. A group of men in formal hats and suits sat in a cloud of smoke in front of a plate of fried chicken. I tip-toed down the stairs and stood at the back of the room, whispering with Fre$h as he oversaw the shoot…

Jane Fader: Your first single, “Dead Millionaire,” has a rather provocative chorus: “The name is Beverly Fre$h. My heart’s just too big. Been working off my pussy just to feed the kids.” Let’s talk about the pussy…

Beverly Fre$h: Well, the name Beverly Fre$h came from a woman who would always come in to this architecture firm where I used to work and show carpet samples. Her name was Sandy Lavender. I always thought, “if I was an R&B singer, my name would be Sandy Lavender.” When I got back into rap and needed a name, Sandy Lavender seemed too R&Bish, so I had to look at other women’s names. Beverly looked good and had a nice ring to it. I added the Fre$h to make it more hip hop.

That’s how the name Beverly Fre$h came about, and pussy is part of that, too. I put pussy in the chorus because of the repetitive, catchy thing. A lot of people blindly follow lyrics…just memorize them without even thinking about it. The majority of people probably won’t pay close attention to the lyrics, but if you spend some time and think, they give you a lot to respond to. I’m trying to use something that’s the complete opposite of male posturing, which is really common in hip hop and rap battles–big dick jokes and things like that. So what is the inverse of male posturing? It’s to be a female.

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Beverly Fre$h Photo Series by Monica Breen

Jane Fader: Oooo, you just hit me in the feminist bone! What’s with the gender deconstruction?

Beverly Fre$h: That’s something that just came about. When we started sUPERIORbelly, our first inspiration was the body (we were like 18 years old). We went through an anatomy book and found the term superior belly, which is a muscle in your neck. It seemed to sum things up because it’s superior–it’s grand, it’s important—but it’s funny at the same time. So it has the same high/low duality that runs through a lot of the work. From that we got inspired by diseases and started talking about the corruption of the body. Then we dropped it all together. It came back later in a weird way with the wigs and the sausage.

Jane Fader: Tell me about the wigs and sausage.

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Beverly Fre$h, the Abject / Photo by Monica Breen

Beverly Fre$h: It’s just something inherent in my interests. Even humor. The act of laughing. It’s an abject, biological function where your body is shaking, you’re making weird noises…

Jane Fader: …out of control…

Beverly Fre$h: Yeah, exactly. So that kind of thing—in a weird way—relates to a certain spirituality. The idea of the unexplained, the unexpected, the intangible…The body is a symbol or a vessel for these kind of things and it’s really bizarre but really familiar. There’s always this repulsion/attraction. Like hair can be really beautiful and attractive, but also disgusting and gross. It’s defining of the relationship to the body in general, and that’s really fascinating to me. Ideally, my work has these two levels where it’s kind of disgusting but there’s something easy to digest and familiar about it at the same time. If it can meet that sweet spot…that’s where I want my work to be.

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Don’t miss Beverly Fre$h, Dial.81 and other sUPERIORBELLy boys (Belly Boys?) at the Magic Stick on Saturday, November 19, 2011.

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Beverly Fre$h (right) records BED with main man and producer Dial.81 (left) / Photo Series by Monica Breen

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Letters From Gypsy Rose Lee to Royce Howes (2 of 2)

Correspondence between the famous burlesque performer, Gypsy Rose Lee, and 1954 pulitzer prize journalist Royce Howes (my great grandfather). Written from the Rialto Theatre in Flint, Michigan (estimated date: 1940). I found these letters taped inside the cover of my family’s copy of The G String Murders by Gypsy Rose Lee.

In this letter, Lee gushes about writing (particularly, her writing) and how it has overcome even her love of stage performance. The first few sentances give the impression that Howes responded to her last letter quite flirtatiously.

You can find a transcript of the letter below the image.

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1940 (approx.)

Rialto Theatre, Flint Mich.

Darling:

You sealed your doom with that letter; I’ll never call you Mr. Howes again. It arrived just before I was due at the local book store…autographing, it’s such a bore. Isn’t it? (she said, lying in her teeth.) I was so set up with the letter, after damn near wearing out showing it to anyone that stopped for a moment, I had several photostatio copies made.

I’m so glad you like G String. I was pretty proud of it myself. Read it four times yesterday but on account of I’m going near blind I’m only reading it twice today. Did you feel that way about your first book? This is making a ham of me after all these years. I can’t move around in my dressing room for books…when I finally get on stage, after missing cues like mad, I forget my lyrics…I’m working without cosmetic; the time I use putting it on I spend patting the jacket. A New York columnist mentioned the book a few days ago and I sat down to my typewriter (yours is a lovely thing in comparison)  to drop the usual note of thanks. I wound up writing a four page biography “From Strips to Scripts” or sompin’. It’s a bad case of being fascinated by ones own words.

I hoped that I could play one of Detroit’s department stores but my bookings take me to Akron, Youngstown, and Dayton. (winding up at Macy’s) Boy! This making with the words is for me…..I dearly love it. And I dearly love you for your faith and for your letter…

Gypsy Rose Lee

Gypsy

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